Single parents really go through a lot of struggles, sacrifices and risks during the whole process of raising their children. If a parent is bothered by growing just one baby, then, obviously, bringing up twins is the real definition of hell on earth. Many parents exhibit very strong virtues and therefore, it may not be easy to notice when they are going through difficulties in life. Twins are babies conceived on the same day and by a common mother. Normally, they come up with a lot of similarities and likeness to an extent of doing almost everything together. Parents also go to the extent of even buying the goodies in pairs to ensure there is no variation in what they posses or wear. Single parents are contingently discombobulated on how to control their twins in their restless nature,feed them, wash them and totally win their attention. The following steps could help parents raising twins contain them and create a peaceful ambiance in the house.
Parents are highly obligated in the house and putting the house under control could be the highest achievement a parent can anticipate for while at home. For example, a patent raising twins has run out of stock, wants to go take a shower or cook. This is quite confusing and demanding and which cannot be attained unless the kids are sustained. The parents need to buy food for cooking in large amounts. This will help prevent running out of stock and minimize movements to and from the market places.
Calling upon friends to help
During these times, a parent may need their neighbour’s support more than ever. They may help in doing simple tasks or nursing the twins for a particular period of time, to allow the parent either take a shower or cook for them. This could be helpful because, as a parent, one will also require time to rest or perform their leisure activities. Parents seem not to trust people around their children, maybe because of their understand towards the subjects, following some stereotypes or because of them being overprotective hence always feeling insecure. Not every person can afford to do shopping for the house that can last a long time. Some will have to purchase food in small quantities hence a lot of movement is involved. During this time, a parent should ensure they have someone whom they can rely on for the same service.
Buying the children playing toys and sectioning the house
Children’s attention is shifted easily towards minor things. Toys engage the twins and makes the forget your absence.During this time, you can perform your unfinished chores. After playing, chances are high that the twins will fall asleep and get carried away heavily in their sleep. This has been a strategy many single parents have been applying to create time. Children could be restless and if a parent is not careful, they may end up destroying items in the house. A times you see parents fencing their children with coaches or multiple chairs to lock them and minimize their playing ground’s perimeter. This is done because if a parent allows their twin play all over the house, they are likely to damage couple of items or leave the room messed up.